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Where you are right now is holy ground.

Shall I share the sad? by Suzi Banks Baum

This week has seen the passing of two dear friends.
One I knew for many years, a rich friendship that wove through my family.
The other, a woman who shared her poetry and joy with me in potent doses.

I know you have experienced loss too.
It is an inevitable result of aliveness.

Please know that while the wild, blue summer sky reels overhead, room is here for tears too.

Today is holy ground.
Take good care,





PS If loss is on your mind, check out this website.


Going First: Beginning (or continuing) a conversation about the creative lives of women

Jan Phillips and I spent time together in June at Women's Voices, Women's Visions at Skidmore College. photo by Denice Jelley
Jan Phillips and I spent time together in June at Women’s Voices, Women’s Visions at Skidmore College. photo by Denice Jelley

I am very curious about conversation.

I love to talk with people about more than the weather.
I want to know what you think, how you see the world and what strikes you as beautiful, memorable or important.
And I want to know what you dream of, where you’d like to adventure, what you care about, and where you see yourself in five years.
I’d like to be part of making that happen for you, if only by leading my life full out so you have someone else out in the world to bounce off of.

In my morning reading, I came across this passage by Jan Phillips in her book, No Ordinary Time. She writes about authentic conversations and describes being surprised by a conversation she started with a young man in a diner by asking where he gets his values.

She says,

“If someone doesn’t go first, how do authentic conversations ever get started?”

Then later in the day, I came across Seth Godin’s blog post titled, Go First. You can find it here. I cannot quote it because it is so short and to the point, I’d ruin it for you.

On Laundry Line Divine, I endeavor to share my creative life with you.

I aim to make sense of my mothering by expressing from inside my experience. I use my words, my images and what I see in the world and bring to you here as conversation starters. Perhaps we will meet in person or you will comment, but mostly, I imagine you might bring this conversation in to your own life and see what happens.


It is summer and I bet you’d rather be out picking blueberries, but since you are here-maybe it is late evening and the fireflies are out…maybe you live in Australia and it is a chilly winter morning and your gripped cuppa is sending up steam between these words and your eyes…maybe you are on the subway heading in to the city for work, these words and images slim in your palm…whatever and where ever you are as you read this, I hope you know how much I appreciate your attention.

I imagine that you may need just a bit of company and a tiny dose of inspiration to set your day right.

I hope you find that here on Laundry Line Divine.


a small found word page in a book I am altering
a small found word page in a book I am altering




From my bright light to yours,





PS Here is a video of Jan’s that gets me going every single time.

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Summer Adventure 2014: Before I Die

Before I Die: Wellfleet #1



This past week, we saw this public art installation on the fence of the basketball court near Mayo Beach parking lot in Wellfleet, MA.






How would you fill in this blank?








Pick up a piece of chalk today and write it on your sidewalk.
Or, if you are in any of these cities, go find one of the installations to add your thoughts to this growing global list.

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I wrote mine in pink chalk:


Trust that I am leaving this Planet better than I found it.















How is your summer going so far?
Mine is full and delicious, like the black currants which have mostly been savored by
the birds in my yard. Yes, I will be that lady shaking a broom at the birds to keep them off the elderberries when they are ripe.

I am preparing for the Giving Motherhood a Voice book tour to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan in August and preparing to pack my son off to college this week.


This is the spot where I say something hopeful and positive to manage my sadness and excitement, my anticipation and sweet ache over his arrival home, our blustery fine times together, his packing effort along with dreams of cedar and birch, the waves of Lake Superior and the places we will be visiting on the tour.

I do have this poem I wrote about my son, which seems appropriate (again), since my husband and I just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary.


This Beautiful Upheaval

After Anniversary, by Davi Walders



That you and I, I and you,

this twentieth year after

you tipped up your chin to

curb the tears falling onto the

cream linen suit I’d sewn for you,

as our best friend sang in his recently

cracking Broadway’s best voice, a song

he’d written about love for us, our parents,

half my set now gone, your mother, single then and

gone now, they tipped up their chins, wiped eyes with

significant hankies which now line my jewelry drawers,

as if all those tears and wet noses and lipstick stains could

comfort a woman and a man who have become, oddly and now

the matriarch and patriarch of our families of birth. Odder still,

our house has gained a tidiness not known for the nineteen years

of our son’s life. He, who rode in to the

world just off the Taconic and fifteen minutes

in to checking in at St. Vincent’s on Seventh Avenue,

where the long dead nuns murmured morning prayers

over the PA system, which no one uses anymore, except in

cloisters where the audio will never be upgraded, but there,

on the ninth floor, maternity wing, he arrived, just barely on the

delivery bed, our midwife arriving in time to scrub and curse you

for keeping me upstate instead of here in the Village, where my loins

parted easily, hips made for birthing, could deliver this bonny lad into the

whirling green cracked open world, where he would change our lives forever.

He, whose head and chest floated before us last night on my laptop,

he, whose voice cracked only a little and once, when I told him

I missed him, showed us his room, his mess, which seems

to follow him everywhere, like our love

sung in that high voice of Danny’s

here, is love, in this messy

beautiful upheaval.



@Suzi Banks Baum

September 16, 2013


I write from inside motherhood. I write other stuff too, but mostly this, because my life is full of living being a woman who is a mother. Just today, after a bare naked nasty moment with my now 20 year old young man, I stood outside without reaching for my phone to call a friend for comfort. I stood in the gusty moist air and felt it- the beautiful upheaval of mothering. It is a thorny slice of heaven.

I wrote about his birthday here.

And about his broken leg here.



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These Enchantments: #Summeradventure2014

These enchantments are medicinal, they sober and heal us.
These are plain treasures, kindly and native to us.
We come to our own, and make friends with matter…

Ralph Waldo Emerson
Essays: Second Series

Beach Heart

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